As always, there are some drawbacks that arise from being in a relationship with an older man, this is mainly when the social stigma associated with it becomes very obvious… If you are with an older man and you do not know if to continue with the relationship, you will have to think about the advantages it entails, but also about the disadvantages…
Getting to know the family
When it comes to having a Relationship with an older man, you may have large cases of anxiety or it can be just a nerve ball when it comes time to meet his family. You may even consider ending the relationship because the age difference is something that many parents disapprove of. This tends to be a big problem for women with parents who are traditional, not open-minded and who are too protective.
However, if you really care and love the man you are with,then your parents will have to learn to live with it (it is very important to remember it). Clearly, you don’t care about the age difference, so try that “parental meeting” date, like any other.
You may tell your parents how you feel about him, information about your boyfriend and his beneficial relationship. It is better to do this before they meet him, as it is a good way to help them. Just don’t mention the age difference when you do this, let them hear how you feel about it and how amazing it is. They’ll find out the age difference when they meet him, hopefully, what you said “will ease the blow.”
Different ways of living
While you’re younger and trying to carry out your dreams through travel, risky business or even living abroad to succeed or achieve your goals. Your man won’t participate. Unfortunately, this is a big problem when dating an older man, because while you still experience and explore life, he has already done it.
Ironically, a professional to have a relationship with an older man is how he is ready to commit and establish himself because he has already done so in many other parts of life. Where I eat, you don’t have, what makes this professional a problem in some cases.
Also, when you want to go out later at night or at a party, it may not because you have also ended that stage of life, so there are differences in the lifestyles that collide, unless you are willing to try it for you, and vice versa
You have the past
When you date an older man, you enter the relationship knowing he has the past. However, you may have been married or, engaged, had many relationships (some serious, some casual) or even children. Because he is older, there is no doubt he has experienced and done many more things than you.
His friends will wonder why you are with him and how you met. Your friends will wonder exactly the same and can even change how they react to you. This problem is very similar to when you meet your parents.
Dating an older man can be the same as dating a younger man. There are a few amazing young men who are as mature, sensible, affectionate, intelligent, loving, committed, loyal and sensible as an older man. However, the reality is that such men are few and distant from each other and that makes having a relationship with an older man the best option for most women.