We’ve all had that one person in our lives we desperately want attention. No matter what we do, we can’t seem to get the attention we want, if we have any. We sat there and wondered what else we could do or say so that this person loves us, but it’s not worth it. If you have to work so hard for someone to pay attention to you, then it’s not worth it.
Here are some reasons why you should stop worrying about the person who doesn’t care about you.
You’re wasting your time
Maybe you’re angry because you don’t know what you’re doing wrong, but you’re really not doing anything wrong… Well one thing you do wrong: try too hard for someone who doesn’t deserve you. There are many other things that are more productive. If it doesn’t make you feel good about yourself, why are you doing it? You don’t need people in your life who don’t want to be by your side.
He won’t change his mind
If a person wants to talk to you, then he will talk to you. When someone really loves you in his life, he will do everything he can to keep you there. It can be hard to know when a guy is simply busy or if he is trying to distance himself from you. It would be nice if a guy were honest about his feelings instead of playing with you, it would be the right thing to do. But it’s all about games, so you only have to learn how to play correctly so as not to get hurt.
People like to be followed by the game, but when there is no interest, the game is over. Forcing someone to do something they don’t want will just advocate failure.
You’re worth more
Why do you voluntarily want to sit there and let someone do this to you? It’s absurd. As people, we must learn to have more respect for ourselves and really understand that we don’t deserve to be treated this way. We need to step forward and say what we want, rather than letting others control the whole relationship or lack thereof.
You should be with someone who treats you as if you were his most important person in the world.
You have many opportunities to seize
how many times are you going to let me play these games with your head and heart? You know you’ve given him one (two or three) too many opportunities. Why let this continue?
If he’s not improving your life, then he’s making it worse. There’s nothing more than that. There’s no reason to keep the deadlift in your life. He knows you’ll be back every time he decides to pay attention to you. This is not right, nor is it acceptable behavior. You don’t need someone to keep you in your life just because it’s convenient when you’re bored.
It is not worth it
You are an absolute goddess and if a guy does not treat you as such, then it is not worthy of you. You don’t have time to spend it on someone who doesn’t value you. If he doesn’t see how great you are, then he’s blind and he doesn’t deserve you. She doesn’t deserve to have such a wonderful woman. He’s doing this to you because there’s another girl out there who has control of her attention, that’s all.
Focus on who does know how to treat you well.