It’s a common mistake to think you should go out looking for love. When love is right, he’ll find you. Meanwhile, learn to enjoy life! Love is the best thing in the world. It literally makes everything better. Food tastes better, the sun shines brighter and even the cold feels a little less hard. But when it comes to finding true love, it’s the hardest thing in the world…
It
doesn’t touch often and when it does, most people are too afraid to open the door. There is a reason why the saying “crazy love” exists and it is not just for Beyonce. It has the ability to drive you crazy and take you from a completely rational being to someone who is crazy in a happy way.
However, the only thing harder than to expect love to find you is to go out and actively look for it. That’s not how love works, so instead of looking for love in all the wrong places, live for you and love will come.
You’ll find
yourself.
When you live for yourself instead of living for love, you can really find yourself in a way that you can only do when you are completely alone. You’ll find out who you really are and you can be yourself no matter what happens.
This comes into play when it comes to finding love in the sense that you will never get lost again while you’re in love. It’s so easy to become someone completely different in a relationship and it’s never good… It doesn’t help you keep love better. In fact, that’s one of the easiest ways to lose it if you manage to find it.
Being true to yourself is important when it comes to being able to love someone else, so instead of looking for someone to love, find yourself first, which takes me to the next point.
Love yourself first
The only person in the world that needs your love as much as you, is you. Without really loving yourself, how can you expect to love another? It is said again and again to those who seek love and it is for good reason. You have to know how to truly love someone else and the best person to start is you. That way, you will not only learn to love, you will also learn the kind of love you are willing to accept and the kind of love you will not tolerate.
It is important to know what you are worth and what you really deserve before going out and looking for love. If you exude such confidence from a person who is truly happy with himself, you will find it without you having to do anything at all.
You will know exactly what you are looking for
.
If you know yourself that way, you will know what kind of love you are looking for and you won’t settle for less. You’ll know what your future partner should be like and what your future partner should be. This also has nothing to do with credentials or appearance, but even more so in the way they will treat you. You’ll know you’re not looking for someone who disrespects you or someone who fights just for sex.
When you know exactly what you want, finding love is much easier because instead of looking for it in someone who doesn’t have it, you’ll find it in someone by chance.
