Maybe you want your partner to miss you to realize that he really loves you, but you don’t know how to do it without looking desperate. Don’t worry because you don’t have to do anything wrong or strange to realize that your partner will realize that he misses you in his life when he doesn’t have you by his side all the time.
Absence makes love grow, that’s for sure. But sometimes we have to do things to make our partners’ hearts grow more affectionate and we want us to be back… missing is not a bad thing after all. You just need to do something small to make it worth it in the end. Follow these tips and see what happens…
If there is something that reminds one person to another is perfume… its scent that lasts over time. Whether it’s on your clothes or on the pillow your partner will smell the scent and think about you, that’s why it is so important to have a characteristic smell. When choosing a perfume, make sure it works with your body chemistry. A subtle and seductive fragrance is what you like. Some examples would be ‘Black Opium’ by Yves St. Laurent, ‘Heure Exquise’ by Annick Goutal or even ‘J’adore’ by Christian Dior.
Your scent will be all you have left when you go home or work. It will impregnate in your nostrils and flood your subconscious with sweet and sensual memories of when you were there in person.
Leave small notes where I can find them
Anyone likes to know it’s in our minds. That said, leaving him a little note will do exactly that. A short, sweet and simple note will be all it takes for me to think about you. It doesn’t need to be a long card or a sonnet. He needs to know you’re thinking about his person.
When you’re at home, write a little note saying something like “I love your smile” or “Have a good day” and it will stay in your mind for the rest of the day. Make sure you put it in a place where you see it right away, such as your bed, your fridge or even in your car.
Even when you’re dating, the need for a girls’ night is still there. While you can’t shy away from your friends to focus your attention on your boyfriend, you and he also need a time of separation. Men love it when they get their space. It’s simple and plain. They don’t want to be chained to you 24/7. Again, absence makes the heart more affectionate.
Meet your friends regularly and make plans without it. Have fun and be happy. He’ll miss you when you’re not around, but he’ll also appreciate some time for himself. Besides, you deserve time for yourself, too. Relationships shouldn’t be the life sentence it’s always supposed to be. Men realize when we don’t spend as much time with them as they crave, and they’ll miss you.
Don’t return your calls too fast
Communication is a double-edged sword in a sense. While men want to be the center of our universe, we should not always attend to them that way. It makes them too dependent on our behaviors. They need to know they’re important, but that we also have other important parts of our lives.
So when I call you or send you a text message, don’t respond immediately. Quick answers show him that you are desperate for his attention. However, when you take your time, he will feel a sense of loneliness and begin to miss you.
If you want me to miss you, take it easy and wait before you answer. He’ll still be there, sighing for you. You want your man to be the puppy who misses you when you leave. You don’t want me to be indifferent to you, and you definitely don’t want her to be angry with you.Take a deep breath and take your time.
Men are able to miss us as much as we miss them when we’re away. By keeping our distance and taking time for us, our couples will realize that they feel alone without us and they will miss us very much.