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What to do if children fight at all times

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One of the worst things for parents is seeing their children continually fighting. It is normal for parents to worry about the bad relationship between siblings and that things go worse and worse. For brothers to fight is a normal thing and the thing should not go beyond a simple argument or quarrel.

The problem arises when quarrels happen on a regular basis and brothers are not able to reconcile and make peace.

Causes of siblings

When it

comes to ending a fight, parents should know first of all the reason or cause that has led to such a dispute. There may be several causes:

  • Most discussions and siblings occur because of wanting something that the other child has or to protect that toy.
  • Another of the most common causes of quarrels between siblings is to attract the attention of the parents themselves. Kids want to be the center of attention at all times for older people and fighting can be a way to get it.

In view of this, it is the task of parents to establish a series of limits and rules that allow children to not have a series of undesirable behaviors.

What Parents Should Do If Children Fight If

  • You Are Watching Your Kids Are Fighting, You should stay calm and try to end that discussion. It’s no good screaming and getting nervous, because this way you’re only going to make things worse.
  • In the event that the fight goes further and reach your hands, it is good that you separate them and send them to separate rooms. Once they have calmed down, it’s good to put them face to face in order to solve the problem.
  • The father must listen to both versions in a calm way and show affection to the two children,in order to make them feel understood and loved.

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  • Parents are the models of children, so it is very important to encourage in homes good manners and good forms. Children copy everything they see at home, hence it is good to behave as best as possible within the home.
  • It’s good to sit together to try to solve the problem. Once heard both versions, it is the father or mother who is responsible for putting an end to the fight. Children should understand that there is no need to fight when it comes to resolving a dispute. Problems are solved spoken in a calm and peaceful manner.

In short, having brothers fight from time to time, is not something to worry about. If, on the contrary, fights are common and none of them come into reason, it is advisable to go to a professional who knows how to put an end to such a problem. What should be made clear is that parents should approach such a problem as calmly as possible and without losing roles. It is also important that parents do not take sides for any of the children and be as equitable as possible and thus avoid possible distancing by one of the children.

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