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Your ex-boyfriend is watching you, what can you do?

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“ My ex-boyfriend is stalking me.” Those are probably the words you never thought you’d say because who was going to tell you that your ex is a stalker? Unfortunately, we do not always see everything about a person in advance, and sometimes people change. They go through a bad time and suddenly a seemingly rational person becomes irrational.

At other times, men seem too “attached” to you after a breakup, but it’s harmless, they’re just trying to recover you, and they’ll recede once they catch the hint… sure? So how do you know if it is harmless or not? And how do you handle it? We tell you!

Compensating for the mistakes of the past

Some men don’t intend to stalk you. Maybe they’re sending too many messages, they show up with roses and are usually nervous, but most likely they have had an epiphany that they should have treated you better and are trying to make up for it.

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don’t require you to return to them because they will kill themselves if you don’t, they’re just trying to make things right. The old saying “you don’t know what you have until he leaves” is present in his mind. Or maybe they knew what they had and they treated you very well, they just think they can do better and everything will be fine. These guys are usually harmless, you just have to tell them firmly that no matter what they do, that you don’t want to come back and you have to respect it giving you space.

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The emotionally fragile

This kind of man can’t lose yourself because you feel that you don’t have the confidence to find a new girlfriend or that her life is in ruins right now and you were her light in the dark. It could also be that a lot happened at the same time and this is what brought him to the limit, so he’s trying to grab you like a safety vest when the ship is sinking.

He needs you, not because it is the perfect relationship, but because he thinks he has no life without you, or that he will never find love again. If this sums up your ex, there’s some reason for concern. You have to handle it delicately so it doesn’t end up more depressed or unsure than it already is. However, it is not your responsibility, and it is important to know.

If you’re not seeing someone else, tell him that you need to focus on yourself right now: for example, you’ve enrolled in exercise classes (or meditation), you’re becoming real about what you want in your career and no offense, but now you just want to be alone.

You’re on a sabbatical year and you’d like me to respect it. To help your cause, you can also disable social media for a month. Make it clear that you won’t talk to him. If you feel like you want to be her friend, tell her to call you in three months. If that doesn’t help, tell him you’ll change your number.

If you feel suicidal or really depressed, call someone who can advise you on how to handle the situation, such as a helpline. It is important that you get advice on how to treat this situation.

If you think you’re in danger, talk to your loved ones and authorities to protect you in case that person starts to have problematic attitudes towards you.

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